Take Charge and Regain Your Confidence

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Meet Louise

Hi, I’m Louise Valsinger — wife, mum to two amazing kids (and two dogs), a teacher, stylist, and now a confidence coach. My journey into coaching wasn’t something I planned. It was something life gently (and sometimes not-so-gently) led me toward. But one thing has always been clear: I love helping people — and that thread runs through everything I’ve done.

I got married in 2012 to my wonderful husband, Joakim (he’s Swedish, if you’re wondering about the name!). We were over the moon to welcome our first baby in 2014, but heartbreakingly, our son Louis was born sleeping. Nothing prepares you for that kind of loss. It changed everything.

In 2015, our rainbow baby Mariella came into the world, bringing light and hope back into our lives. Then in 2016, our son Albie arrived — two months early and with a rare genetic condition called Prader-Willi Syndrome. At that time, I was completely floored. I felt angry at how unfair life felt, and for a while, I lost myself.

It took years to even begin to lift out of the fog. Looking back, I so wish I’d had a coach when I was ready to start finding my feet again. Maybe it wouldn’t have taken me so long to feel like me again — to rebuild my confidence, sense of identity, and belief that joy was still available to me.

“The day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit.” Fabienne Fredrickson

“The day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit.” Fabienne Fredrickson —

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A few years later, during a walk with a friend, she gently encouraged me to do something just for me — to get my colours done with House of Colour. I didn’t realise how much I needed that little boost until I saw myself in colours that made me feel like me again. It wasn’t just about clothes — it was the first flicker of light I’d felt in ages. I felt seen. Bit by bit, my confidence started to grow, and I found myself recommending the experience to all my friends. One of them turned to me and said, “Why don’t you train to do this yourself?” And that’s exactly what I did.

By 2022, I was juggling life as a part-time secondary teacher (Biology and Psychology), and working a few days a month as a stylist with House of Colour. I loved it. Seeing women light up as they reconnected with themselves was so fulfilling. And it hit me — whether I was in the classroom, in a colour analysis session, or just chatting with friends — I’ve always been drawn to supporting others. Helping people feel more confident, more capable, more them has always lit me up.

But deep down, I wanted to go even further — beyond the wardrobe, into the mindset. I wanted to help people at a deeper, more holistic level. Another friend suggested I’d make a great coach. I lit up. It just clicked. I started researching training programmes that aligned with my values, found one that truly resonated, and haven’t looked back since.

Now, coaching feels like the natural next step in a lifetime of helping others grow. I bring all parts of me into my coaching — the resilience I’ve built, the psychology I’ve studied, the styling I’ve shared, and the compassion I’ve grown through my lived experiences. Coaching allows me to hold space for others the way I wish someone had held it for me.

If you're feeling a little stuck, like you’ve lost sight of who you are or just need someone to walk beside you as you figure things out — I’d be honoured to be that person.

My Story – How I Got Into Coaching

My values

It’s all about helping you reconnect with what truly matters to you. And that all comes back to the values we live by—so here are mine.

Empathy

For me, it's all about truly getting people. I've been through enough in life to know that sometimes you just need someone to really listen—without trying to fix you or rush you. I don’t come with all the answers, but I do show up with an open heart and zero judgement. That matters.

Empowerment

Nothing lights me up more than seeing someone realise they’ve got this. I’m not here to tell you what to do—I’m here to help you see your own strength and take the steps you want to take. You’re in charge. I’m just walking beside you, cheering you on.

Resilience

Life’s thrown a few massive curveballs my way. Losing Louis, then navigating Albie’s diagnosis… it floored me. But somehow, bit by bit, I got back up. That strength didn’t come overnight—and I’m still working on it—but it’s shaped who I am and how I coach. I know what it’s like to feel lost, and I know what it takes to rebuild.

Authenticity

I’m not polished, I’m not perfect—and I don’t expect you to be either. I show up as me, and I encourage my clients to do the same. No masks, no pretending. Just real conversations, with real people.

Growth & Self-Discovery

I’ve always believed that we’ve got the answers inside us—it’s just about getting quiet enough to hear them. Coaching for me is about creating space to figure things out, without pressure. I’m a big believer in learning as you go, getting curious, and being okay with not having it all sorted.

Connection

Relationships are everything to me. Whether it’s in coaching, teaching, or day-to-day life, I care deeply about building proper, honest connections. Feeling seen, heard and understood is powerful—and I want everyone I work with to feel that.